Friday, August 19, 2011

MIL coming home!!!

Ajeya says that he wants to call his mom home to be with us for a weekend. I have to tolerate her. She can be really nasty and try to act up. She may try to say that I do not cook enough or that
I have not been brought up well or some nasty thing. I feel like questioning why I should tolerate her..She is a very very nasty women who has no affection for any one. Extremely selfish and horrible..

It is OK for her to insult my mom but it is not OK for me to insult her..
She always says (and wants to believe) that her daughter is better than me..
She only has expectations from me and all the affection and everything is for the daughter..
She wants me to be like a servent for her..
cook for her, Ajeya should not help me, I should keep the house clean, I should work my ass off
while she and Ajeya just sit and chit chat..thats what she ideally wants

My parents have never been mean to Ajeya but his folks have never been good to me..
All this make me feel like I am in some sense inferior than him and that I am supposed to take all this crap from them..
But then again..I feel I do not deserve this bad behavior ..
Its not fair!!!

She has only shut her mouth after I shouted at her on the phone..and now..we should call her here..rather we are "supposed to" call her here and ..treat her well..
why?
what about she was "supposed to" treat me well..
and BTW who makes these rules?
Why is the women always the one in trouble??